You know yourself well.
It's just not showing up yet.
Smart, capable, self-aware... and still stuck in the same loops.
This is where that changes.
Not sure where to begin? Let's talk - no strings attached, free of charge.
SOUNDS FAMILIAR?
You've done the work.
Something still isn't shifting.
It feels like having 50 browser tabs open, and one of them is playing music — but you cannot find which one.
You are running on fumes with the warning light permanently on.
Every time you try to slow down, your brain serves up a fresh to-do list instead.
WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE
Stop chasing insight.
Start actually using it.
Make decisions without the endless mental committee meeting.
Stop feeling guilty every time you're not being productive.
Lead yourself with clarity and run on something other than fumes and willpower.
People who find their way here don't always come with goals.
Sometimes they just know something needs to change.
I blend coaching and counseling techniques, so whatever version of yourself you bring, it won't feel too much or too messy for this work.
Not sure whether you need coaching, counseling, or therapy? The lines are sometimes blurrier than expected and it's genuinely confusing. Happy to help you find the right fit, even if that's not me.
The UNTANGLED Framework
my philosophy and approach in 3 steps
RECLAIM
Name what you feel.
Bring structure to the mess.
It starts with equipping you with a powerful tool to make sense of what has been fueling and draining you.
This becomes your user manual for your inner world, giving words to what you have felt but could never quite name.
You begin spotting your patterns and reclaim what was always powerful in you.
We rebuild with insight and hope.
ANCHOR
Stay steady in uncertainty.
Now that you can hear yourself again, we practice staying grounded, regulated, and honest…
... even when life is messy and uncertain.
Your confidence gets replanted in healthy soil, and you learn how to care for it, gently and consistently.
You no longer need constant reassurance because your roots are anchored in your own knowing.
SAIL
Move forward with clarity.
This is where you begin leading yourself from enoughness instead of performance.
We shift into integration... because sailing cannot be learned only from books.
You need to experience it.
You sail forward guided by your recalibrated compass - one you now trust and know how to use...
... even when the waters get rough.
Pick your path
INTEGRATIVE COACHING · 1:1
Life, Untangled
You've read the books. You know the theory. And yet you're still stuck in the same loop.
When insight is no longer enough, this work helps you bridge the gap between what you know and how you actually live. We move from pattern recognition into real, lasting change — building the clarity, calm, and consistent action that hold up in real life, not just on paper.
LEADERSHIP COACHING · 1:1
Walk the Talk
You lead others well. But who's holding you accountable to yourself?
Designed for leaders navigating high pressure without losing themselves in it. We work on how you show up — not just in meetings, but in the moments that define your credibility and your energy. Authentic leadership is a practice, not a personality trait.
COACHING WOMEN · 1:1 · PRO BONO
FurtHER
Empowering women — my way of paying it forward.
I know what it's like to need support and feel like it's out of reach. A small number of spots open each year for women who are ready to do the work. Cost is never the reason someone stays stuck — not if I can help it.
CAREER COACHING · 1:1
360° Career Strategy
From inner clarity to market readiness — all in one process.
A strengths-based career program built specifically for the Dutch market. We combine Strengths-based coaching, deep local recruitment expertise, and real hiring insight — so you don't just find a job, you find the right one.
COUPLES COACHING · COMING SOON
In Tandem
There's love and respect — yet you keep having the same argument.
Using CliftonStrengths as a shared language, we surface the patterns underneath your conflicts and make space to reconnect with each other. You'll understand why you each react the way you do, and how to turn your differences into something that actually works.
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